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How 3 Tiny Habits can Change Your Life
January is behind us and for many, those resolutions we made just 30 short days ago are behind us as well. Let’s be honest with ourselves for once. Are the resolutions you carefully wrote down, stored on your iPhone, and shared with your family realistic? Can you really stick with them long term?
While searching for a way to set (and successfully stick to) my intentions for 2012, I had the pleasure learning about a new program called “3 Tiny Habits”. “3 Tiny Habits” created by BJ Fogg, PhD, founder of Stanford’s Persuasive Technology Lab, helps people create new behaviors that can change your life. The simplicity of the program is the key to its success. Keep it tiny (and Fogg means TINY) and build from there.
“For long term results to occur there needs to be both a change in one’s environment and baby steps taken when introducing change in your life”, says Fogg. 3 Tiny Habits taps the power of context and baby steps and has proven to be remarkably effective.
The program (which is free) challenges participants to commit to making three tiny changes in your daily life. Keeping the habits really small helps ensure you stick with the new behavior long term. Fogg stresses the simplicity of the program because “failure takes away your ability to succeed in the future”. According to Fogg, “The secret to habits is attaching them after an existing behavior”. A new habit gets attached to an “anchor behavior” and it makes it easier to follow through.
The second secret to his program is keeping it small, really small….like tiny. Instead of “I will exercise every morning this week”, the program recommends setting goals like “After I brush my teeth, I will floss one tooth”. Flossing one tooth is a much more realistic and attainable goal than starting a new exercise program. The satisfaction of achieving the small goal begins a habit of a daily victory. The strength of this triumph, despite its diminutive size, is quite powerful and one is likely to want to experience that sensation again and again.
In addition to his 18 years of research and teaching at Stanford University, BJ Fogg was recently named one of “10 New Gurus You Should Know” by Fortune Magazine. It’s always good to know at least one guru in your lifetime – so I jumped into the week-long program in early January and was pleasantly surprised at its effectiveness. Declaring my 3 tiny habits was probably the hardest task (Fogg provides several ideas if you draw a blank), performing them was actually the easy part.
My days are generally filled with doing multiple things at once in order to use my time efficiently. But that daily approach can lead to rushing, not taking time for myself, and not appreciating the little things in life. So the general theme of my habits was to slow down and take time:
1) After I get dressed, sit down and take 3 deep breaths.
2) After I brush my teeth at night, say one thing I am thankful for.
3) After I get into bed, read one sentence of my book.
3 Tiny Habits allowed me to celebrate the successes of my habits on a daily basis and gave me the power of possibility to make real changes in my life. It gave me the confidence that I can perhaps make life altering changes using this method.
Another early adopter of the program includes thought leader and Jill’s List Advisor Linda Stone. “I loved it. It was super effective. Instead of hyper focus on outcomes, goals that are too ambitious, and failure, 3 Tiny Habits celebrates constant success and one can ease into behavior change.”
“If you plant a tiny seed in a good spot, it will grow in a good spot” according to Fogg. In other words, start here and see how 3 tiny habits can bloom into positive, daily behavioral change. The commitment is minimal (about 3 minutes a day) and the results last a lifetime.
To learn more about the 3 Tiny Habits program, Fogg’s persuasive power research, or to sign up to participate, check out BJ Fogg’s web site at www.bjfogg.com .
New Year, New Partnerships
Jill’s List and the Massachusetts Chiropractic Society Inc. Form a New Partnership
We are excited to announce a partnership with the Massachusetts Chiropractic Society (MCS), a non-profit professional services organization of Doctors of Chiropractic based in Methuen, MA.
As part of Jill’s List’s mission to provide a comprehensive community of credentialed health and wellness providers to health consumers, we have partnered with MCS to invite their members to join Jill’s List. This relationship with MCS will expand our network to help health consumers in or visiting Massachusetts to find credible chiropractors.
“This is a wonderful partnership,” says Dr. Scott Darragh, a vice president with The Massachusetts Chiropractic Society. “We are aiming to have all our 700 plus members of the MCS on Jill’s List and it’s a great way for us to collaborate with other practitioners, help patients get the right information about their overall health and even work with other doctors to complement our patients overall well being.”
Members of MCS, like all practitioners on Jill’s List, will be able to market their practice, share information and recommendations, and, in a secure account, manage their calendar and allow health consumers the ability to book appointments online. Additionally, MCS members, who create profiles on Jill’s List, will be invited to be early users of the Jill’s List Referral Network, which will allow all health professionals who hold credentials to refer patients and clients to one another via a private, secure, closed system.
Welcome to our new members from MCS! We look forward to working with you.
To learn more about Chiropractic, the largest natural, drug free health care system in the United States log on to http://www.masschiro.org.
Making our List and Checking it Twice
Reflecting on 2011, it was a year of birth, tests, changes and growth for Jill’s List. We are proud to share with you our accomplishments in 2011 and our plans for 2012.
In 2011, the Jill’s List team:
- Grew from 3 to 15.
- Launched our Integrative Health directory – adding thousands of new practitioners and attracting interested health consumers and professionals to our website.
- Provided Practitioners with:
- A tool to market and promote their Integrative Health practice
- An online community and network of Integrative Health Practitioners
- Provided Health Consumers with:
- A trusted resource for finding credentialed practitioners
- A place to share information and recommendations
- Partnered with Boston-based doctors, nurses and Integrative Health professionals to offer pro bono (free) appointments to underserved patients who could not afford to pay out-of-pocket for acupuncture, massage therapy and chiropractic sessions.
- Doctors referred their patients using the Jill’s List referral network (which was in beta) to participating acupuncturists, massage therapists and chiropractors
- An enormous thank you to all of the generous practitioners who participated in the program, offering pro bono sessions and feedback to the Jill’s List team
- Began discussions with many Integrative Health Academic Institutions, Associations and Healthcare Networks about collaborations in 2012
2011 was a year of birth, learning, testing, building and growth for Jill’s List!
Our 2012 Goals:
We want to share with you our list of goals (resolutions, perhaps?) for 2012 and invite you to participate and Share the Health!
In 2012 we will:
- Launch Jill’s List Tools for Integrative Health Professionals and Practices:
- Set up your Calendar and offer Online Appointment Booking
- Store Notes about patients, privately, safely and securely
- Refer patients to Practitioners on Jill’s List
- Receive referrals from other Integrative Medicine practitioners and doctors on the Jill’s List network
- Launch Jill’s List Tools for Health Consumers:
- Book appointments online
- Store and access health information in one place for you and your family (in a private, secure environment)
- Share information, progress reports, and updates between Practitioners (you control the ability to share notes amongst your practitioners)
- Build relationships with Academic Institutions, Associations, Health Networks and Consumer Networks involved in Integrative Medicine:
- Enable the best Integrative Health Referral Network in the US
- Codify current credentialing requirements (or lack of) within each Integrative Health modality and expose these to health consumers and professionals
- Expose and lobby for ideas and initiatives that help drive awareness for and usage of Integrative Healthcare (including providing care to health consumers who cannot afford to pay out-of-pocket for care)
- Highlight studies, research, and programs that show evidence of Integrative Health to lower cost of care and increase efficacy of care.
- Be a PLATFORM for collaboration and education that helps health consumers and professionals get well, be well and stay well!
There are many ways that you can participate in the growth of the network…here are a few:
- Join Jill’s List
- Invite a health professional to join Jill’s List
- Recommend treatments that have worked for you!
- Email us your ideas or suggest ways to collaborate
Thanks for being a part of Jill’s List in 2011! We are excited for the future and for what 2012 will bring for better, smarter healthcare!
Share the Health!
Jill and the Jill’s List Team
What Do Our Wrinkles Truly Reveal About Us?
Every time I look in the mirror, it seems another line has developed around or between my eyes. Is it lack of sleep, the stress of work and three kids, or could it possibly be the roadmap to my inner self? If you ask anyone in North America, they’d tell you those wrinkles are simply a sign of age, and in the next breath, they’d refer you to their plastic surgeon. But according to ancient Chinese medicine, those lines on your face may tell a deeper story about who you are, and may even provide a roadmap to the inner you.
Jean Haner, author of The Wisdom of Your Face and The Wisdom of Your Child’s Face, recently introduced me to Chinese Face Reading, an ancient branch of Chinese medicine, which is thousands of years old. “The secrets of your inner nature and personal potential are eloquently inscribed in the curve of your cheeks, the shape of your eyes, the contour of your brows, the unique language of your original design.”
Face Reading was originally used as a diagnostic method in Chinese medicine, to help determine someone’s physical health. But it was also used to reveal one’s inner nature and discover their strengths and their personality type. Ancient Chinese face readers were so insightful they could be considered the original life coaches, advisors, therapists, and matchmakers.
Jean spends time consulting clients on the deeper meaning behind the features, lines and wrinkles that develop on our faces, so we have a stronger understanding of who we are, where we came from, and how we can use this information to live with more purpose. Despite the recession, $10 billion was spent last year in cosmetic surgery and other procedures to eliminate these minor signs of aging. If only we understood the positive message those lines provide, perhaps we could embrace them rather than try to erase them!
Curious about the emerging crow’s feet and changing shape of my face, I asked Jean to do a face reading for me and my family. Before my reading, Jean and I had never spoken nor met. She knew very little about me, my kids, my personality or my life. Armed with only my birth date, a few photos of me and the kids, and the knowledge of my work at Jill’s List, Jean was ready to begin.
Her observations of my exterior features (my open eyes, nose, mouth, lines, and ears) helped me understand what my face reveals about me. She nailed my personality right from the start and “read” different characteristics about how I manage my personal, family and professional life. She revealed what my features say about me, but also how others might interpret my expressions or features. Despite the fact she knew so little about me, Jean really understood my personal and professional strengths, my weaknesses, and the challenges I tackle. It seems the “3000 years of research and development”, as Jean refers to it, really does hold significance and merit.
Jean’s second book The Wisdom of Your Child’s Face, helps parents understand their child’s inner nature and potential. A reading can help understand what your child’s personal gifts and challenges may be so you can help guide them in their lives. Jean included a mini reading of my three kids and could not have been more accurate about each of their personalities. Quite intriguing!
The size of a nose, the slant of your eyes, the shape of your brows, or “strength” of one’s jaw can truly uncover whether you have potential to be powerful, active, sensitive, open hearted, generous, compassionate, or have strong integrity. I learned there is not a cookie-cutter approach to Jean’s readings, but rather an unveiling of how our face weaves together the meanings of all the features, all the wrinkles, and all the markings to reveal the true you.
You can find information about Jean Haner’s workshops and private consultations at http://wisdomofyourface.com
Engage with Grace this Thanksgiving
After meeting Alexandra Drane last year and hearing her speak at TEDMED about Engage with Grace, we felt compelled to remind our readers about this important topic. Engage with Grace is a simple 5 question proposition to ensure your loved ones get the gift of dying the way they wish. This week, many of us are gathering with family to celebrate togetherness and to remember what we are thankful for. But it is also an opportunity to give your family the gift of knowing end of life wishes. Having these very important conversations with our closest friends and family is at the core of Engage with Grace, and we hope you can be the one to help get the conversation started.
You only live once. And you only die once. The goal is to live and die the way you want.
Here are the 5 questions. Read them, consider them, answer them, and share your answers with your loved ones.
From Patient to Healthcare Consumer
Here in the US, we consider ourselves active consumers. We make conscious decisions and choices about the things we buy ourselves or our families. Before we buy something, we often do research, we compare prices and product quality, and we ultimately select what best suits our wants or needs. But when we are considering caring for our own health needs, are we taking as much time considering what is best for our own body and mind?
Our Jill’s List guest blogger this week is Scott Cedeno. Scott, a Licensed Acupuncturist and founder of Beacon Street Acupuncture, examines the shift from passive patient to active healthcare consumers, where “individuals are capable of making real and lasting changes to their health and well being.”
From Patient to Healthcare Consumer – by Scott CedenoThe face of healthcare in America is currently undergoing major change. More and more, individuals are seeking out care beyond the standard Biomedical interventions that their Doctor’s office commonly provides. However, patients often wade into the unfamiliar waters of Complementary and Alternative Medicine (CAM), without sufficient guide posts to mark their way.
The world of CAM can be a strange and mystical place, laden with new and unfamiliar information and concepts. It is populated by a variety of treatment types and modalities, characterized for their safety, efficacy and power. Some modalities, such as Acupuncture and Oriental Medicine, stem from traditional medical systems and have ancient origins. Others, such as Chiropractic and Massage Therapy, have a more contemporary genesis.
Though many treatment practices and perspectives exist within the greater field of Complementary and Alternative Medicine, numerous fundamental similarities exist. They serve to unite these disparate and varied disciplines into a unified perspective, as well as to distinguish them as unique from standard Western Biomedical care. Two prime examples include:
1. A Holistic understanding of the individual
The term Holistic is pervasive throughout contemporary culture, and its use extends into the realm of cliché. However, it is a principle factor in the formulation of a CAM perspective. Patients are seen and understood as individuals, who’s health exists across the entire spectrum of their being. This spectrum is composed of an intricate and interrelated web of physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual components. The compartmentalization and hyper specialization that exists within the Biomedical model remains un-emphasized. This allows for individual CAM practitioners to serve as providers for a wide range of health concerns that a patient may have.
2. The increased role and responsibility of the patient in their own healthcare
All too often, patients engaged in Biomedical care are passive recipients of this care. Procedures are done to a patient; they are preformed on a patient. Consequently, care becomes reactive and intervention based. Conversely, CAM modalities strongly emphasize the increased role and responsibility of the patient in their own heath and well being. This shifts the emphasis from a reactive form of medicine to a proactive one; from a intervention based standpoint to a prevention based one.
As patients increasingly continue to choose CAM options for their healthcare needs, they begin to understand their own health and well being differently. Physical concerns are seen in light of emotional correlates; psychological imbalances are gleaned through a physical lenses. Patients perceive themselves as primary stakeholders in their own health, with a powerful and justified voice concerning the type of care they receive. Through exposure to CAM options, individuals see themselves less as the passive recipients of intervention based care, and more as active agents, capable of making real and lasting changes to their health and well being. They transcend the modern understating of patient and become a healthcare consumer, with the ability to make educate and informed choices about what treatment types are right for them.
The key to this transition, however, lies in access to both useful and reliable information about CAM options. This is true for both patients, as well as Biomedical providers. For patients, it is important to be able to effectively select what type of CAM modality and practitioner is right for them. For Doctors and Biomedical providers, it is important to understand and be familiar with the capacity and potential of various CAM modalities, when and how to make referrals to CAM providers, and how best to communicate with these providers about patient care.
As healthcare in America continues to change, both patents and providers have a unique opportunity to shape the way in which we provide care for each other.
About Scott Cedeno:
Scott received a B.A. in Philosophy from Boston College, a Master of Acupuncture degree from the New England School of Acupuncture, as well as Diplomate status in Acupuncture from the National Certification Commission for Acupuncture and Oriental Medicine. He specialized in Japanese Acupuncture, focusing on 5 Phase Meridian Therapy, Extraordinary Vessel and Extra Channel Polarizations, Channel Divergences, and Muscle-Tendon Meridian Treatments.
Scott recently completed a Certificate of Advanced Study in Pain Topics with a Policy Specialization from Tufts University School of Medicine. The program focused on the examination and understanding of the complex issues and unique challenges associated with both chronic and acute pain conditions. He currently has a private practice at Beacon Street Acupuncture in Brookline, MA.
Healthy Kitchens lead to Healthy Lives
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The idea that food is medicine is the foundation for an upcoming leadership conference that bridges nutrition, science, heath care and the culinary arts. Leading experts in medicine and food collectively tackle the idea that our diet can greatly reduce the risk of chronic illnesses including obesity, diabetes and heart disease.
“It’s one thing to tell our patients to eat well in order to stay healthy and reduce the risk of disease, but it’s even more important for health care providers to be able to model these behaviors themselves” according to David Eisenberg, MD.
Dr. David M. Eisenberg is the Bernard Osher Distinguished Associate Professor of Medicine at Harvard Medical School and the Co-Director of the upcoming Healthy Kitchens, Health Lives, a continuing education program in Napa, California. The conference invites health care providers including physicians, nurses, nutritionists, exercise physiologists and food executives to participate in a 3-day conference to study the effects of food, prepare and taste their creations, and develop nutrition plans for their clients.
Attendees participate in hands-on teaching sessions from culinary experts and learn the connection between healthy food choices and reducing the risk of disease. The program teaches the doctors about the preparation of healthy, delicious, affordable and convenient foods. The intersection between the “culinary world’ and that of integrative medicine will also be discussed.
Conference Dates: March 22-25, 2012 in Napa, California
Early Bird Registration is available through November 15th.
For more information and to register visit: Healthy Kitchens, Healthy Lives.
You Control the Healing
How Patients Use Mind/Body Techniques to Heal Faster
At Jill’s List, we talk a lot about patients being active participants in their health and empowering the patient with information to improve their healthcare and physical healing. For some patients and practitioners, including Peggy Huddleston, this has been common practice for many years. Peggy, a graduate of the Harvard Divinity School, practicing psychotherapist, and clinical researcher, has been teaching self-healing techniques for decades. Through mind/body exercises, Peggy has empowered thousands of patients throughout the world as illustrated in her book Prepare for Surgery, Heal Faster. Peggy shows how to reduce anxiety before surgery, use 50% less pain medication, and heal faster using mind/body techniques.
“In my practice, I had many clients facing surgery. They expressed how nervous and anxious they were and asked if there was anything I could do to help reduce their anxiety.” Peggy guided her patients through a relaxation and visualization technique and was flooded with positive reports from her patients after their surgeries. It was clear to Peggy that she had to share these techniques with other patients and practitioners worldwide.
Today, Peggy’s techniques are used by nurses, doctors, anesthesiologists and patients alike, and her workshops are offered in hospitals from Boston and New York to Paris and Amsterdam. Through her book and CD, Peggy walks the patient through a 5-step process which includes deep relaxation exercises, visualization, family/friend support, healing statements, and benefits of meeting your medical team in advance of your treatment.
A controlled research study with 56 patients having colorectal surgery at The Lahey Clinic showed patients using Prepare for Surgery, Heal Faster had significantly less anxiety before surgery and healed faster being discharged from the hospital 1.6 days sooner than the control group. These patients used 60% less pain medication by the second day at home and had less depression and insomnia.
In addition to surgery, Peggy also focuses on lessening the side effects of chemotherapy, radiation or other medical procedures. “Children can absorb the feelings the parents are experiencing. If a parent is anxious, then the child often absorbs that anxiety and begins to feel that way too.” Parents can share Peggy’s healing techniques with children facing what can be considered scary and unfamiliar procedures, and can help children take a more positive approach to healing. For instance, Peggy’s method suggests viewing chemotherapy less as a toxin and more as a 100% healing agent. There are clearing profound implications of the age-old saying “think positive”.
Prepare for Surgery, Heal Faster has implications for a generally healthy life as well. The book and CDs can be used to gain a deeper relaxation for use at work, dealing with stress and handling any crisis with which we are faced.
Peggy trains and certifies healthcare professionals in using Prepare for Surgery, Heal Faster. Nurses and social workers get 13.5 CEUs for her weekend training which can be taken in person in Lexington, MA or from home.
To learn more about Peggy Huddleston, her workshops and research, or to order a copy of her book and relaxation CD visit www.HealFaster.com
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Finding a Good CAM Practitioner
How does one find a good Complementary and Alternative Medicine practitioner? Typically, patients have conversations with friends about their health issues – their aches, their pains, their moods or headaches, and so on. Until recently rarely did recommendations or referrals to CAM practitioners came from a patient’s primary care physician, but instead came from a trusted friend whom had tried a treatment for a similar condition. So the burden to find a CAM practitioner has traditionally fallen on the patient. While history is beginning to change as MDs are taking a more integrative approach to health, many patients are still faced with the challenge of locating credible and trusted CAM practitioners on their own.
At Jill’s List, we are helping patients find credible CAM practitioners in their area, assisting hospitals in the referral process, and providing an online space for practitioners to be more accessible to patients. But we understand patients (old and new to CAM) are still uncertain how to proceed and establish a trusting relationship with a practitioner. We reached out to the Jill’s List community of experienced practitioners and advisors to share their thoughts on best practices for assessing a CAM practitioner.
Mark Hyman, MD , Founder of the Ultrawellness Center in Lenox is dedicated to identifying and addressing the root causes of chronic illness through a whole-systems medicine approach called Functional Medicine. Regular and ongoing communication with his patients is essential to caring for his patients’ needs.
“When meeting with a CAM practitioner for the first time, feeling apprehensive or uneasy about a new treatment is not unusual; however, the practitioner should make every effort to make the patient feel comfortable and at ease from the first meeting. To help reduce any concern, the patient should come armed with questions about the practitioner’s practice, experience, various treatments offered, expectations during and after treatment, and projected results. Open communication between a practitioner and patient is essential to treating individual needs and creating wellness.”
Dr. Hyman’s advice is sound and underpins the positive experience I recently had with Scott Cedeno of Beacon Street Acupuncture, whom practices Japanese Acupuncture. Until my appointment with Scott, I was only familiar with Chinese Acupuncture otherwise known as Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM), which strengthens and harmonizes the flow of qi (energy) in the body by the insertion of very fine needles into specific points or meridians. While Japanese Acupuncture also uses some light needling and Moxibustion, it is based on a “root/branch” approach to healing, which seeks points on the body that may be the root cause affecting a certain “branch” of one’s system. I was honestly not sure what to expect from the treatment, but Scott immediately put me at ease with his kind demeanor and his effort to keep me informed throughout the treatment. There was a lot of two-way communication prior, during, and after my treatment which made me feel like a participant in the healing process and eliminated any insecurities I may have had.
Scott is also a practitioner participating in our Comprehensive Medicine for All program at Jill’s List. As part of the CMA program, Scott is apt to meet with patients both experienced and inexperienced with complementary care. Important to Scott is having a holistic understanding of each individual patient.
“Patients are seen and understood as individuals, who’s health exists across the entire spectrum of their being. This spectrum is composed of an intricate and interrelated web of physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual components. The compartmentalization and hyper specialization that exists within the Biomedical model remains un-emphasized. This allows for individual CAM practitioners to serve as providers for a wide range of health concerns that a patient may have.”
Experience, education and credentials are also key factors in selecting a practitioner according to John de Kadt, licensed Acupuncturist , Chinese Herbalist, Ayurvedic Consultant and Living Food Nutritionist from Canyon Ranch. John understands the importance of finding a practitioner that best suits the patient’s needs. “Call the practitioner in advance and ask them if they have worked with treating your health concern before. Having at least 5 years experience in their field of work is an important qualification. Finally, while some conditions take longer than others to treat, you should feel some benefit or improvement after 7-10 treatments. If not, you may consider exploring another practitioner whom may take a different approach.”
Have you had a positive experience with a practitioner? What made you feel confident in your choice?
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Is Your Mood Ring Predicting the Future of your Health?
If you grew up in the 1970’s, you probably owned a mood ring at one point in your life. In my day, they were big, glossy cat’s eye-like stones atop an adjustable silver-plated band that allegedly changed color to match one’s current mood. They all came with a piece of paper the size of a gum wrapper (generally misplaced within the first hour of owning the ring) which had the “key” to the colors. Blue meant calm and relaxed, red meant excited, green meant normal and so on. I suspect if you put a mood ring most women today, it would permanently glow on the color match for “stressed”, since many of us maintain prolonged stressful mood states throughout the day.
But did you know research shows prolonged stress can lead to negative thoughts which have been linked to chronic illnesses? In fact, a new study and analysis reported last week by the Journal of the American Medical Association suggests depression increases the risk of stroke. Anxiety, resentment, resignation, and shame or embarrassment are four of the most common “stressful mood states” we experience at one time or another. The key is to understand which mood we are experiencing, connect to that feeling and consciously and mindfully make the mood shift.
Stressful Mood States
Anxiety is a continual feeling of worry and concern and is expressed as a need to control the actions and behavior of others. People can be anxious about anything – their future, their kids, their health, their finances, their safety and more. Prolonged anxiety can lead to Irritable Bowel Syndrome, chronic headaches, and high blood pressure.
Resentment is a continual feeling of anger or bitterness. Many can feel that things are terrible in their life and someone else is responsible or to blame for it. When resentment settles in for a prolonged period of time, this mood state can lead to further anger and hostility, Cardiovascular Disease and TMJ.
Resignation is a continual feeling of helplessness, hopelessness, cynicism or skepticism. Often people in this mood state feel lonely or abandoned and believe there is nothing they can do to improve their life. Prolonged resignation can lead to fatigue, depression and insomnia among other illnesses.
Shame or embarrassment is a continual feeling of inadequacy or that things are “all my fault”. Depression and chronic pain can develop from the deep effects of shame and embarrassment.
Shift the Mood
I don’t need a mood ring to tell me when I am stressed or in need of a mood shift, I have a husband who can tell me that! But it does take some self awareness to remind myself when I need to make that mood shift during my regular day. It seems obvious that we all have the power within ourselves to shift our negative mood to a positive state at any time, thus improving our thoughts and helping to prevent chronic conditions. But then again, more than 60% of Americans are suffering from preventable chronic illnesses or conditions including depression, fatigue, cardiovascular disease and sleep disorders. Perhaps because they are unaware their moods and thoughts are contributing to the decline in their health.
When we are in a positive mood state, we are more likely to achieve our goals, accomplish more, find happiness, love deeper, have more tolerance, and find inner serenity. Certainly, there are many techniques for managing our moods from massage therapy, to exercise, to connecting with nature, to the foods we eat. But if you find yourself in a prolonged stressful mood during your day, there are a few FREE “on the spot” techniques which I learned at Canyon Ranch to help “shift your mood”.
1) Acknowledge or attend to the sensations you are feeling. Consciously connect to these feelings in your mind and understand why you are expressing this negative mood.
2) Sit down. Close your eyes (keep them open if you are driving). Breathe in slowly and deeply for a count to 5 and then breathe out for as long as you can. Repeat this breathing 5-6 times while focusing as much of your attention to the tip of your nostrils. Visualize the negative mood state leaving your body when you exhale. Now, in your mind, think of the positive mood you want to outwardly express and mindfully place in your body.
3) Once your breathing has slowed, focus your attention on the top of your head. Imagine a warm liquid sunshine or light beam shining down through the top of your head and gradually warming and relaxing your body from your head to your shoulders, shoulders to hips, then hips to feet. When that light beam has reached your feet take notice of how it feels to be in your body right now. Now match that feeling with the positive mood state you visualized in step two. Open your eyes.
Usually after I try this, I find my shoulders have dropped several inches away from my ears and my breathing is more fluid. I realize I had probably spent hours involuntarily breathing shallow breaths, and I was so disconnected to my own physical body that I couldn’t even recognize when my muscles were tense or my jaw was clenched. This short exercise can almost always bring me back into my own body, create more self awareness, and bring me peace for the rest of my day. Five minutes of my day in exchange for a peaceful experience and a lifetime avoiding negative health conditions sounds like a good plan to me. Oh, and my mood ring is glowing a calming blue now too.
What color is your mood ring today?
Sources:
Canyon Ranch “Mood Shifting” lecture
Mindful Meditation – select audio meditations
Center for Disease Control






